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Keeping a Feeding Log

January 02, 2008

When our first son was born I kept a meticulous journal of his feedings. I'd note the time he ate, which breast he ate from, and how long he fed. I also marked down wet and dirty diapers. I was on top of things, and pretty proud of myself. At least I was, until his pediatrician more or less dismissed my note taking. I handed him a copy of the log, and he gave it right back to me. "I don't need this," he said. But look at all my hard work, I felt like saying back to him. Look, even my handwriting is neat!

What I realize now, is that he was essentially saying, your son is fine. He's peeing and pooping and most importantly gaining weight-- you can relax.

But fast forward to our second son, I did the same thing again. I kept a journal for a couple of weeks because I found it helped me keep track of what was going on. In a post-delivery fog, and sleep-deprived state, it helped me to remember when he ate. It was especially important because he was a sleepy baby, and I had to wake him to make sure he ate frequently enough.

So, I still like the idea of keeping notes for a little while, at least. And I'm sure some moms do it longer. That's why I was excited to get a copy of this journal from Random House. "Time to Feed: A Journal for Recording Your Baby's Feeding Schedule" is a great gift for a new mom. In fact, I just gave it to a friend today. It has simple entry spaces for each feeding, whether its boob or bottle, breast milk or formula. Best of all, there is a basic guide to breastfeeding at the back of the book, written by La Leche League.


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This is a very nice gift to give a new mother. Having worked with many first time mother’s for many years I have seen many of them struggling with feeding and remembering what time they last fed their baby, particularly in the middle of the night. Having a new life enter your life will involve immense change and can also involve a lot of sleep deprivation. Anything that will help at this time should be encouraged. But as well as giving a new mother this book how about giving some gift tokens specially designed for the new mom from you. These are not one you purchase from at a store but one written and decorated by you.

This token allows the bearer to exchange it for one of the following suggestions:

1. One time of watching and if necessary walking around while you sleep for a couple of hours.
2. One meal cooked and delivered to your home
3. Washing and ironing
4. Anything you know the new mother might like.

It is often easier for a new mother to exchange one of these than for her to ask for help.
Get lots of free advice from an English Nanny.

I also kept a log - just a page in a notebook where i kept track of feedings, which side, and wet/dry diapers. It eased my mind that I wasn't forgetting anything. I did the same with my 2nd kid and truthfully, needed it even MORE the 2nd time. With kids 20 months apart, I had even more on my mind the 2nd time around!

Sister, I did it for eight months with my first son and eight months with my second. Once you get in the habit, it can be kind of hard to stop.

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